purpose

My “MOM” hat is ALWAYS near. And it should be! My kids are my first purpose!

But I have other purposes also!

One of them is to help women imagine their lives with a secondary purpose! With acceptance that is is OKAY TO BE MORE, they become exceited. And as they get clarity, they become invigorated.

Your “MOM” hat will always be near, but imagine the other hats and the other roles you can play!

Imagine the impact a secondary purpose and the abundance and prosperity that are possible can have on your family, community, and others across the globe!!

Imagine the vibrancy and life you could flow into your every day actions with a blissfully happy temperament and an indispensable ability to flow with change!

That’s BEATIFIC WELLNESS.

Now, add clarity, courage, and action, and imagine what this new chapter could look like for you, your family, your kids, and your community!

What does it taste like, feel like, and smell like?

Is the sun brighter, the grass greener, the water warmer?

What are you doing with the abundance and prosperity? Traveling? More family-centered time?

What kinds of fun are you having?

Don’t you feel Lighter? Brighter? More at peace?

Now look at you!! You’re Inspired! And you’re glowing!

Join me! I look forward to chatting with you!!

Driving a parked CAR

If you’ve ever pushed the accelerator in your parked car, you know that the fuel being burned is wasted. The car isn’t going to go anywhere in park.

And yet, we often go around in our lives “stuck”.

That’s because we’re trying to drive a parked car. And until you know how to take the CORRECT action to get out of stuck and get the car into DRIVE, you’ll continue to burn fuel in wasted effort.

When we are stuck, our creative channels are locked shut and the simplest, seemingly most insignificant nuggets of information are hidden from view. Given enough time, we’ll drain our tanks and feel heavy, exhausted, and hopeless.

Cemented, plastered, and paralyzed.  

I have been there. And I can help.

In my story, I kept filling the gas tank by investing time, money, and energy into my career, but that parked car just wouldn’t go.  

I no longer visited “stuck”; I lived in “stuck”! 

My optimism was drained and replaced with cynicism. I multi-tasked, worked longer and harder. I tried everything, except for putting that car into drive. And after time, my relationships and even my health suffered.

And then I received assistance in finding the hidden nuggets.

You see. There are only four components to reach any goal!! 
(1)    Fuel – invest money, time, and passion
(2)    Vehicle – job, business, endeavor
(3)    Destination – the experience or goal driving the quest
(4)    Action – You have to put the vehicle in DRIVE! 

I was “stuck” because I hadn’t taken the appropriate action.

I had turned the steering wheel, adjusted the seat, pushed the peddles, moved the mirrors, cleaned the console, revved the engine, and topped off the fuel, but I had not put the car in to DRIVE!! 

I had taken lots of actions. – But I hadn’t taken the correct action!!

Whether your experience with being “stuck” is holding on to the wheel steering away from a train wreck like I was, or just patiently waiting for help to arrive, being stuck in the driver’s seat of a parked car is no fun!!  

Realizing you’re stuck is critical, and the next step is realizing that taking the same actions will get you the same results, and giving yourself permission to stop analyzing and each day doing a single new action. 

At work, this may mean buying a smoothie for a disgruntled co-worker and online this may mean putting a positive spin on just one post. For me, it meant being more visible. It required becoming empowered.

Wherever your path takes you, I wish you a fabulous “unstuck” adventure!

And if I can help, join me every Monday and Friday, LIVE on Facebook, @beatificwellnessdotcom.

“Introducing Unstuck”
⚔ Overwhelm ⚔ Perspective-blindness ⚔
⚔ Reading the label from inside the jar ⚔
⚔ The point of Diminishing Returns ⚔

Discover the steps that alleviate overwhelm and perspective-blindness, the tools that allow you to read the label from inside the jar, and where the point is that working harder stops being productive and begins costing. — And that’s just in element one!!

Element One: “Introducing Unstuck”
Element Two: “Clarity”
Element Three: “GPS”
Element Four: “Move that Bus
Element Five: “Purpose”
Element Six: To Stay or Not to Stay”
Element Seven: “Energetically Speaking: Masculine and Feminine Qualities”
Element Eight: “Servant / Master / Victim”
Element Nine: “Communication”
Element Ten: “Hope and Fear”
Element Eleven: “Abundance”
Element Twelve: “Purpose, Actions, and Gifts”

Enrollment begins March 20th, 2020. – FAQs – See you inside!


Brain-Scaping

Signature program opens for enrollment March 20th, 2020.

Landscape your Brain to get the most out of life!

Element One: “Introducing Unstuck”

Element Two: “Clarity”

Element Three: “GPS”

Element Four: “Move that Bus

Element Five: “Purpose”

Element Six: To Stay or Not to Stay”

Element Seven: “Energetically Speaking: Masculine and Feminine Qualities”

Element Eight: “Servant / Master / Victim”

Element Nine: “Communication”

Element Ten: “Hope and Fear”

Element Eleven: “Abundance”

Element Twelve: “Purpose, Actions, and Gifts”


“Introducing Unstuck”

⚔ Overwhelm ⚔ Perspective-blindness ⚔

⚔ Reading the label from inside the jar ⚔

⚔ The point of Diminishing Returns ⚔


Introduction:

If you’ve ever pushed the accelerator in your parked car, you know that the fuel being burned is wasted. The car isn’t going to go anywhere in park.

And yet, we often go around in our lives “stuck”. That’s because we’re trying to drive a parked car.

And until you know how to take the CORRECT action to get out of stuck and get the car into DRIVE, you’ll continue to burn fuel in wasted effort.

When we are stuck, our creative channels are locked shut and the simplest, seemingly mosy insignificant nuggets of information are hidden from view. Given enough time, we’ll drain our tanks and feel heavy, exhausted, and hopeless.

Cemented, plastered, and paralyzed.  

I have been there. And I can help.

In my story, I kept filling the gas tank by investing time, money, and energy into my career, but that parked car just wouldn’t go.  

I no longer visited “stuck”; I lived in “stuck”! My optimism was drained and replaced with cynicism. I multi-tasked, worked longer and harder. I tried everything, except for putting that car into drive. And after time, my relationships and even my health suffered.

And then I received assistance in finding the hidden nuggets.

You see. There are only four components to reach any goal!! 

(1)    Fuel – invest money, time, and passion
(2)    Vehicle – job, business, endeavor
(3)    Destination – the experience or goal driving the quest
(4)    Action – You have to put the vehicle in DRIVE! 

I was “stuck” because I hadn’t taken the appropriate action. I hadn’t put my car into DRIVE!!!

I had turned the steering wheel, adjusted the seat, pushed the peddles, moved the mirrors, cleaned the console, revved the engine, and topped off the fuel, but I had not put the car in to DRIVE!! 

I had taken lots of actions. – But I hadn’t taken the correct action!!


Whether your experience with being “stuck” is holding on to the wheel steering away from a train wreck like I was, or just patiently waiting for help to arrive, being stuck in the driver’s seat (or even trying to reach the pedals from the back seat) of a parked car is no fun!!  

So join me in the UNSTUCK element of “Brain-Scaping”, my signature program.

Discover the steps that alleviate overwhelm and perspective-blindness, the tools that allow you to read the label from inside the jar, and where the point is that working harder stops being productive and begins costing.

We’ll also touch on abundance, fear, and the feminine and masculine qualities.

HOW to get “unstuck” by taking the correct actions·        
How to upgrade your vehicle if it no longer serves you·        
How to match passion with clarity so that you know the fuel, vehicle, destination and actions·         Ways to reignite optimism, hope, and faith ·        
How to stop being the victim and take action·        
If your priorities are as scrambled as mine were, and get them back into alignment·        
How to articulate what you really want, and manifest it 

It is impossible to manifest anything good in a parked car. It’s time to get unstuck!

Check out Brain-Scaping FAQs

See you inside!!!

Taking a “Human” Break

Stop pretending like you’re alright!

Swallowing the irritation, sadness, or grief from the occassional stressors can cause indigestion, but frequent attempts really does have PHYSICAL ramifications.

So let’s begin with the purpose of feelings. Feelings are emotions triggered by our brain based on our thoughts. Our thoughts, even though none of us like this truth, are actually ONLY our interpretation or our perspective of reality.

How we perceive the world causes thoughts, and those thoughts create feelings and emotions. And, as the ENERGY in MOTION that they are, emotions take a specific route through our body, and when un-obstructed, leave.

BUT… if we fight the emotion or feeling, and PREVENT these energies from leaving, we create internal conflict. This  internal stress can trigger a fight or flight response. (Think anxiety.)

Now, let me ask you… What good is it going to do to run, hide, or fight from an INTERNAL stressor.

NONE what so ever!!!

And yet, many of us put our bodies into this state daily … Often, without realizing!!

The popular antidote from feeling (at inopertune times, during busy schedules, or at all) is the ability to mute our thoughts. By putting our thoughts on “mute”, we have enabled part of this situation.

But, as Marie Forleo would say, everything is figureoutable.

Even this!!!

We can remedy this just by taking notice of our thoughts!

We can stop feeling emotions associated witb childhood triggers (that we didn’t realize we had), by listening to our thoughts and holding ourselves accountable for those thoughts!

But that is only part of the solution.

Even if we know our thoughts and can justify our emotional responses to our perspective of reality, if we buffer away or stuff our feelings into a black box in our stomach, we havn’t accomplished anything!

Emotions must be allowed to dissipate!! That means “feeling” those feelings, and in a world primed on composure and tight schedules, this requires TIME!

Emotions are eloquently named since they are indeed energies “in motion”. And, when uninhibited, will disipate on their own!

And since you can’t pretend to be alright when you desperately need to “feel” those feelings, it’s best to realize you’re human and that feeling those feelings and allowing that energy to dissipate is worth taking a break!

Take a break to be human!

Taking a “human” break is necessary for your emotional and mental health, and is, come to discover, just as vital for your physical wellness!!

A Smorgasbord of Options

It is awesome to be able to answer questions, but more than that, it is a privilege and a blessing that they chose me to ask!

Here are some of the questions that I hear often: 

  • What is candida overgrowth?
  • Why does my tongue tingle?
  • Can I ever eat gluten again?
  • Is milk bad?
  • What causes brain fog?
  • How does lymphatic congestion cause my fingers or ankles to swell, or my hands to feel cold?
  • What can I do about arthritis?
  • I have an autoimmune disease. What do I do now?

And I have answers to all of these! (Yes, I’m such a geek, so that little statement really was a statement of gratitude. Gratitude that I learned and gratitude that I get to share this information to help women feel better!!)

Now, my favorite way that I help people is actually not in answering questions, though I love that!!

I really love providing options!

You see, when we’re ill, we got to the doctor. The doctor says take x and y for 10 days. We take x and y for 10 days and we either feel better, or we return and the doctor says take l and m for 5 days. Again, either we feel better or we return. If we return, the doctor orders labs, tests, or xrays, and we wait. Then we get a referral, a new drug to take, or, even worse, we’re told “it’s in our head”. (Seriously, this actually happens.)

Now, I love doctors. It’s like choosing a mechanic. There’s a lot of them, so you pick the one that speaks your language and is able and willing to help! But even then, they are limited in how they can help. They can NOT offer ALL of the options!

And each of those medicines they prescribed in that scenario, ate away at your precious microbiome. And damage to that microbiome, has major implications on our wellness!!

All of this to say: YOU HAVE OPTIONS!!

So, to put your options in nutshell:

There are three stages or communities of wellness. There’s the tier that wants to make the environment better so that the body can perform the function itself. There’s the tier that wants to do the function for the body through a natural route (i.e.oils, herbs, etc.). And then there’s the tier that wants to do the function for the body by any means necessary.

What I really enjoy doing, again in addition to answering questions and helping women feel better: I lay out the options!

Like a buffet, I lay out all of the options for my clients. There is value in each of the three tiers, but not every tier is necessary at all times, and there may be long term effects for that short term success. We balance the pros and cons and the client gets to choose. Not only are they able to make a decision, there by owning their wellness (which is EPIC!!!), they also have learned a valuable long-term ability. They’ve discovered the balance between short term and long term wellness goals!

That’s what I do. 🙏🙏🙏 I help my client’s understand their options, the resources available, potential long term wellness effects from their short term solution, and then I share that journey with them. We walk that journey together. No more, waiting between appointments. Nope, we have consistent communication!

And that’s what wellness is all about. Having someone in your corner that cares about your wellness as much as you do!!

It is an absolute blessing to answer questions, and it’s truly A-W-E-S-O-M-E that you allow me to help! But more importantly, thank you for valuing your wellness enough to be curious!!

Curiosity may have killed the cat, but it is the only thing that will save our wellness!!

Wash your Mind

When life seems crummy, WASH IT OFF! Wash off the critism, the unfinished to do lists, the unachieved goals, the snarky comments, the foul food, the dirty dishes, and any other stressors that are icky and gross in your gut!!
… Because harbouring stress is no different than harbouring icky slime in your gut!!

So, two steps!

STEP ONE, best done on paper: write it all out! The work situation, the home situation, the commute situation, the family situation, the kid situation, the food situation… You get the point. Write it all out. Your dog ate the couch, your car has issues, your favorite football team didn’t win… Whatever it is, write it down. Even the ones that may seem trivial or pathetic. And then write down the other stressors, because you know there’s more in there! And now think about your to do list or taxes or politics, or anything else that stresses you out, and write those down too. Your list may be massive, and that’s okay. 😱Realize that those things have been twirling around in your brain, many of them in the background, and telling your body to be on the lookout. Something bad is coming… Something really bad is coming…😱

And, if its been a while since you supervised your thoughts, your brain has been sending those signals throughout your body, so your whole body has been on high alert, and since our bodies are amazing and resilient, they know to pull the energy from the less key areas to support the more urgent needs and they’ve been pulling energy, preparing for whatever the bad thing is that the brain said was coming!

Has it been a day, a week, a month, a few months, a year?? Your brain said its coming, but it didn’t come. And we survived running on fewer cylinders because our bodies are amazing and resilient, but imagine the functionality and energy, vibrancy, and vitality you’ll enjoy when your body isn’t preparing for D-DAY!! Or perhaps your “norm” is stressed. If so, let’s fix it. It will manifest into symptoms and ailments!

So, with your list in hand, STEP TWO: separate the “can fix” from the “cannot fix”. You can mark out the “cannot fix” items so they are illegible or (preferred) write them on a separate paper and either burn the paper or rip it to shreds. There is no reason to fret over things that are outside of you that you can not fix.

Important note: you can not control other people. You may want to, but those are not “can fix” items.

And the “can fix” that you can fix soon, put those on a sticky note and put the sticky note on your cell phone or on the bathroom mirror, or set yourself an electronic reminder for soon (today or tomorrow). Limit yourself to five or six items that can be done soon! — So the most important ones that will make you happy or feel like a weight has been lifted, PICK THOSE!! Now, everything else that is a “can fix” but are earmarked for a later time and didn’t make your top five (or six), highlight them in yellow or green, and either put them on the calendar (preferred) for next week, next month, or “sometime this century”, OR simply put the list away and be ready to retrieve it when your five items are done. Either way, know that those items are safe on the paper, and you DO NOT need that garbage in your brain, or in your gut!!

This activity of washing off your mind is best done frequently, because we all know how easily our minds can run away, or get lost in a rabbit hole. 😂


I LOVE helping people through this process of cleansing and then re-organizing their minds! Let me help!!!

Brain, Mouth, Gut

We know that our bodies are complex electromagnetic vessels where every part from our foot to our head are interconnected, so following that same tract, it doesn’t surprise us to hear that there is a relationship between the microbes in our gut, brain, and mouth. Even more interesting, and perhaps startling if you suffer from this, is that bleeding gums are a possible passageway by which the nasty germs of our mouth leak into and proliferate within our arteries, heart, and brain. In fact, these bad-breath causing germs can do far more than cause bad breath; they  have been linked to arterial, heart, lung, brain, and blood sugar issues.

So how do we keep our mouths clean?

Well, fluorinated toothpaste is not the answer.

The Ayurvedic approach to clean mouths is three part:

(1)    Brush your tongue with a tongue cleaner first thing in the morning.

(2)    Brush your teeth with a clean toothpaste.

(3)    Oil pulling by swishing coconut oil until it become sudsy inside your mouth. This takes time and also works as a mouth exercise which is incredibly beneficial when learning a new language.

Before ingesting anything in the morning, drinking water helps to hydrate and wake up your organs.

As far as herbs, neem is a wonderful seed that is often still offered following an indian meal. Known to promote good mouth and dental health, neem may be a supplement or chew that interests you.

For a personal guide through the literature, to create your own wellness plan based on your specific symptoms, body type, and timeline, or to find out which probiotics I use, connect with me on Facebook or visit my website.

Website: BeatificWellness.com

Facebook: BeatificWellnessDotCom

*Disclaimer: This information is not meant to diagnose, treat, prevent, or cause ailments. I am not a doctor, physician, nurse, psychologist, nutritionist, accountant, alien, or mathematician. I am simply a human helping people navigate the science and wisdom of wellness and create their own wellness plans.

**Our mission: Beatific Wellness educates and empowers women to be their own Wellness Advocates, both at home and at the doctor. To learn more about Beatific Wellness and what we offer, visit: BeatificWellness.com.

Era of Sanitizer

With 15 to 724 trillion microbes calling our bodies “home”, many of which are or may eventually prove to be beneficial, sanitizing the world through mass annihilation of all germs is not only ineffective, it is dangerous.

The Era of Sanitizers

If you are in favor of sanitizing the external world, I understand. In fact, I used to lather on the hand sanitizer and wipe every surface down with the yellow tubs of bacteria-killing wipes, especially as a new mom, but that was the old me. The new me understands that we are only seeing part of the iceberg of alarming issues that this era of anti-biotics, anti-bacterial soaps, and sanitizers has and is creating in our internal and external ecosystems.

We don’t need any more super-bugs or mutant viruses to understand that we are teaching the bad bugs what they need to do to survive, and they’re listening!

So before you use that hand sanitizer, know that you are massacring all of the good and bad, internal and external bugs, and teaching the bad bugs how to proliferate more effectively. And that the impact isn’t only limited to your body, or your community. The effect is widespread.

Provided the correct resources and environments, our bodies are masterful and capable of protecting us, unless we continue to stimulate the bad bugs, making them stronger. By aiding our bodies in performing a task that it has been perfecting for thousands of years, neutralizing and digesting bad bugs, we can keep our internal microbiome happy and thriving so that we can enjoy Blissfully Happy (Beatific) Wellness.

For alternate and possibly more effective approaches to cleaning our bodies and our homes, visit my website or find me on Facebook.

Website: BeatificWellness.com

Facebook: BeatificWellnessDotCom

*Disclaimer: This information is not meant to diagnose, treat, prevent, or cause ailments. I am not a doctor, physician, nurse, psychologist, nutritionist, accountant, alien, or mathematician. I am simply a human helping people navigate the science and wisdom of wellness and create their own wellness plans.

**Our mission: Beatific Wellness educates and empowers women to be their own Wellness Advocates, both at home and at the doctor. To learn more about Beatific Wellness and what we offer, visit: BeatificWellness.com.

Hydration Matters

With 90% of our ecosystem being microbial, it shouldn’t surprise any of us that, as the human hosts, we feel it when that 90% is not functioning well.

To help keep that internal ecosystem happy and thriving, stay hydrated.

As I write this, I am envisioning my daughter’s eyes rolling, so as I giggle, please know that we need water. And not the water that is mixed with grounds in the production of coffee or the water that is in the ingredient list of your favorite drink. Real water.

To put it simply, when our bodies are improperly hydrated, there is not an adequate amount of free moisture to flush out every microbial self-appointed czar that infiltrates our open borders (i.e. mouth, eyes, nose, and skin membranes) and to maintain the lubrication of all of our systems. Our entire digestive tract is coated with mucus membranes, and these need moisture to properly function. Without hydration, that czar-want-to-be can wreak havoc and effectively disrupt our internal systems very quickly.

So, hydrate yourself with small quantities of warm or room-temperature water frequently throughout the day.

Especially beneficial in lubricating your digestion (without dampening agni, your digestive fire) drink a large glass of water 30 minutes before a meal, but not any closer to the meal time.

A similar activity that promotes hydration from the outside-in is hydrating the skin. While helping to calm vata, promote relaxation, aide in the skin’s immune function, and support the production of neurotransmitters, applying oils to your skin lubricates your skin, and when mixed with herbs are received into your skin rather than just staying on the surface. – This approach is similar to dental oil-pulling accomplished by swishing coconut oil in your mouth.

To create your own wellness plan based on your specific symptoms, body type, and timeline, scheduled your one-on-one session by visiting my website or connecting with me on facebook.

Website: BeatificWellness.com

Facebook: BeatificWellnessDotCom

*Disclaimer: This information is not meant to diagnose, treat, prevent, or cause ailments. I am not a doctor, physician, nurse, psychologist, nutritionist, accountant, alien, or mathematician. I am simply a human helping people navigate the science and wisdom of wellness and create their own wellness plans.

**Our mission: Beatific Wellness educates and empowers women to be their own Wellness Advocates, both at home and at the doctor. To learn more about Beatific Wellness and what we offer, visit: BeatificWellness.com.

Master Digestion

If you suffer from any symptoms or ailments, please understand that your body is trying to communicate an issue. You’re not broken and your body does not hate you. It is simply trying to talk to you, so start listening.

The sooner we listen, the easier the issues may be to resolve. And since our gut, or more specifically our small intestine, is the window to the rest of our internal ecosystem and is where a large part of the microbes that call us home live, we know that disturbances in the small intestine can cause a domino effect throughout our bodies.

Mastering digestion (both of food and of life) is often the lowest hanging fruit and can be a great place to start when trying to solve (not mask!) the problem.

Here, we focus on internal digestion.

Four Considerations when Optimizing Digestion.

If you’re looking for a magic pill and that one-size-fits-all approach, you probably already know that that’s not what I do, but I can say that many of my clients have seen positive change just from incorporating fennel, coriander, ginger, cumin, and cardamom into their menus and taking good, colonizing probiotics, but it is also critical to “gently” eradicate the bag bugs, and this requires extra caution, especially for those with SIBO, a fungal overgrowth such as candida, or with food allergies and food sensitivities.

There are multiple beneficial “gut kits” that I have had positive experiences with that effectively and gently eradicate the bad bugs (#NoAffiliations), and when paired with colonizing probiotics that populate the small intestine with good and diverse flora.

Whether you’re looking for a herbal-kit to optimize digestion or you prefer the DIY approach, these important rules of thumb should be considered when rebooting your “second brain”:

First, gentler is better. The lining of your small intestine plays a critical role, and harsh, though effective treatments such as spicy herbs (or even high potency non-spicy herbs), essential oils, or pharmaceuticals can cause harm even though they may be performing the desired function.

Second, stress leads to oxidation or “internal rusting” so if we are constantly poisoning the system with rust, and not alleviating the stress, none of our changes will lead to long-term success.

Third, there is something to say about nutrition. Now, I am not a nutritionist, but I do know that the literature proves time and time again that processed foods are not promote a healthy and vibrant microbiome, so keep this in mind.

Fourth, knowing your body is everything! For example, vata-imbalanced people do not do well with raw foods, so cutting out the salad and lightly cooking their veggies serves them very well.

Learn about your body type and what you can do to help optimize your digestion. Visit my website or connect with me on Facebook.

Website: BeatificWellness.com

Facebook: BeatificWellnessDotCom

*Disclaimer: This information is not meant to diagnose, treat, prevent, or cause ailments. I am not a doctor, physician, nurse, psychologist, nutritionist, accountant, alien, or mathematician. I am simply a human helping people navigate the science and wisdom of wellness and create their own wellness plans.

**Our mission: Beatific Wellness educates and empowers women to be their own Wellness Advocates, both at home and at the doctor. To learn more about Beatific Wellness and what we offer, visit: BeatificWellness.com.